Giving Skype a Try

Currently, the cam site I am on charges $6 per minute – but you’d be surprised at how much of that I actually receive. Many of you spend so much on a cam site.. so I figured why not have all of your generous gifts actually go to the girl rather than the site?! After talking with a few people that also do this, looking at the average, I am charging $60 per 15 minutes. Payment is received through PayPal. Please feel free to ask for any time outside of the below schedule, as mine can easily be rearranged to suit your needs (except for today, the 30th). Feel free to post on here, or email me at TheShaeSummers@gmail.com to schedule your first Skype show with me! Make sure to put “Skype” in the subject line, or I probably won’t answer. Let me know if you have any other questions!

Current Schedule:
Tues, 30 Sept 10am-1130am EST
Wed, 1 Oct 12pm-5pm EST
Thurs, 2 Oct 12pm-5pm EST
Fri, 3 Oct 12pm-8pm EST
Sat, 4 Oct 930am-1230pm EST
Sun, 5 Oct By request only.
Mon, 6 Oct 12pm-5pm EST
Tues, 7 Oct Leaving the country for a few weeks!

I do have camming accounts on both naked.com (http://new.naked.com/profile/shae-summers/40160) and streamate.com (http://www.streamate.com/cam/ShaeSummers/), so you can also find me on there. I will probably be on one of these sites during the times above when there are no Skype shows scheduled.

I have a very exciting month awaiting me, and I can’t wait to tell you all about it! I’ll let you know whats going on before I leave the country, but what I’m really looking forward to is sharing my experiences with you upon my return! I hope you all are having a lovely start to your week! xx

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Questions Questions Galore

I suppose we have a lot of catching up to do.. don’t we? The lapse in replies over all of my social media is mainly due to my new boyfriend. I’ve been making the choice to put him, and our life first over Shae’s. I hope you all understand. Regardless of my personal life, I know I need to stay more on top of things. Try to help keep me motivated with things? Blog ideas help, as well.. I’ve written requests down from here and there, and I’ll give you the answers some of you have been waiting to hear for a while.

Hoophomer asked on March 7th:
“Because of your honest talk about the porn business, how there is a side to the porn industry that you don’t wish upon anyone, that it is a blessing and a curse…it made me kind of conflicted because it seems there is part of you that doesn’t like the business?”
That is true- there is a part of me that doesn’t like the business. Right now I absolutely love it, but I know its probably going to have a more so negative effect on the rest of my life. I enjoy what I do, yes, but to me.. this is a selfish indulge that I’m eventually, sooner rather than later, going to have to let go of. I’m lucky enough to only film four days a month. If I wouldn’t have been offered a contract, I wouldn’t have ever done porn. I think it takes too much of a toll on people physically and emotionally. Even with the bad aspects, I don’t think I’d go back and change my decision to embark upon this journey.. I’ve really come to love and embrace all of my experiences.

Dan asked on April 2nd:
“..after time in the industry how do you feel about men? Also would think all the random dudes (like me ;)) sending you all kinds of messages would get weird or just exhausting. How do you handle that?”
Honestly, I was already a little jaded when it came to men. I think thats why I don’t really have any emotional issues with being in the industry. Growing up I didn’t really have any male figures in my life that taught me the good in men, and I guess thats where it all started. From ages 13-16 I was mainly only with girls, and I really enjoyed and preferred that. Its almost as if I wanted to show them how they should be treated since I was never shown how women should be treated. I grew up watching my mother get shit on, guy after guy. I just thought that women deserved so much more. When I’m in a lesbian relationship I like to take care of the other person emotionally, physically, financially, etc. When I’m in a hetero relationship, I often find myself doing the same things, but it gets frustrating to me because in my head I feel like the guy is supposed to be doing those things for me. It usually ends up being an odd dynamic because I like to do those things for my partner, but only really a female partner.. but at the same time, I almost feel guilty when there are guys out there that do those things for me. Its confusing. Looks like I’m getting a little off topic here.. but I’m just letting my thoughts flow :). Many of you have asked me about my thoughts on relationships with men versus women, so you can get a little taste of that too! Once I got into dating men a little more, I too got shat on by them. Next came the massage business, which I really appreciate because I understand men so much better because of it. I’m now actually able to embrace some more qualities in men because of the industry. Please don’t take any of my words as a feminist, or putting men down. I’m simply sharing experiences in life that have caused me to think the way I do now. I couldn’t say whether I prefer relationships with men or women because they are so different.. and its a person by person basis, as well.
You know, I actually don’t find it that weird to receive messages from all sorts of random people. I have to say that it does get a little exhausting because there are so many that come in, and I have so many different social media platforms. I definitely have a lot of trouble keeping up with things, especially as my fan base grows. It also seems like I never actually get anything answered at the rate new messages etc come in!

Todd asked on April 15th:
“Is there any new female performer you would really like to work with. Any thoughts about a fetish or bdsm shoot at kink.com?”
I really don’t know many people in the industry aside from those that I have worked with. So, no- I can’t really say there is anyone that I can think of. If I had to choose my top five favourite women that I’ve worked with they’d be: Abigail Mac, Daisy Haze, India Summer, Shyla Jennings, and Veronica Rodriguez.
In my personal life, I do take a mild interest in BDSM. I think I’d definitely like to take it a little further in a controlled environment (porn) so I can discover more about my likes, dislikes, and sexuality in general.

Johnny asked on April 16th:
“I was wondering if you might share with us more about how people you encounter in your non-porn world react when they and if they find out about your work in the industry, I’m thinking people like your dentist/yoga group/chiro doc. Can you share with us how you square such obviously healthy choices for your body with being in this line of work where disease can be just beneath the surface with so many of the people who work with you.”
In general, I don’t necessarily talk about what I do with people I randomly cross paths with. Its funny because I recently saw a new gynecologist, and went for my yearly.. and I mean, I obviously have to inform them of what I do so that they can help me take extra precautions, and help me maintain my health.. but anyways, after I told him, he was surprised and intrigued. My gynecologist then proceeded to ask me random questions about the business, and my part in it. Keep in mind, this was before the exam.. so… chirp.. I felt.. a little.. awkward, to say the least. One of my dentists knows as well, and I find that I get a few more calls made personally by him to check on me than I ever have in the history of health care professionals.
Unfortunately my health is something that I risk every time I show up on set. I’m not really sure why I find the risk worth it.. I guess because for me, the positives of (me, personally) being in the industry currently out-number the negatives. With my general effort to stay healthy (although with my travel, I’ve been slacking a lot), it also helps make me less susceptible to get something because my body is able to fight things off a little better. I also believe that if I ever were to get something, my body wouldn’t allow it to thrive as much if I’m in good health. Wish me luck.

JD asked on April 28th:
“Would love to hear more about your stories from the spa and out call massages if you would like to share. Was there ever anything that shocked you while doing it like cock size or amount of cum? Ever given a man of the darker variety a happy ending?”
I’ll save spa stories for another day 🙂 I could write about that all week!
You know the main thing that I found shocking was the fact that some men came (and came), and paid money for it! I was there thinking like, dude, you are sexy as fuck, rich, intelligent.. why are you here? You could go in public and take your pick! I do totally understand why they took the massage route, but still, sometimes it really made me wonder. Cock size has definitely surprised me many times. Lets just say.. what you expect isn’t always what you get. There was really only one guy that I can recall that surprised me with the amount of cum. I closed my eyes every time because it would just gush and gush, and it wasn’t visually pleasing – and thats coming from someone who likes watching!
Yes, my very first happy ending was given to someone of the darker variety!

Teelov2 asked on May 6th:
“I am just curious what made you start doing yoga and where did you get the motivation?”
Hmm.. its hard to remember. I want to say I first got interested in it when I was in middle school because I was also interesting in things like ice skating and ballet. I didn’t get more into it regularly until I was 16. I had a wonderful influence at that time who made me want to learn more about health, yoga, reflexology, eating well, etc. As soon as I’m settled into a place more permanently I’d like to do a yoga teacher training course!

Oldguinness asked on May 13th:
“Did not know if you would go into more detail on when you realized you were the bosses sexretary and what happen or was said on the day when it was your first time…..giving in as it were too the clients request for sex…curious if you have had multiple guys at once or sex with a total stranger that you thought yes, and if you ever have anal before porn or after porn..”
Well, when I was interviewed for the secretary job, the things he had me doing were very normal (to see if I could manage the position). However, just before I left he asked me to do one more task.. if I wanted to go ahead and earn a little cash, that is. So, that day, when I got the job, I nervously pranced around his office in my heels and panties.
Yes, I have had sex with massage clients before. But it wasn’t for money. It was because they just happened to turn me on either mentally or physically, and I couldn’t help myself. Unfortunately when I was younger there were also situations where… I suppose I just felt like I.. had to.
No, I have never had a one night stand with a random person! Crazy, huh?
I have tried anal with one person before porn. And you know what? I really didn’t enjoy it. He didn’t give me the best experience with it, so perhaps I will be able to enjoy it with someone else in the future!

Dan asked on May 18th:
“One question, if I may – I saw on a website somewhere that you are of Asian ethnicity. If true, which one in particular?”
Yes, it is true. I am Irish (mothers side) and Chinese (fathers side). There is a little more mix in there, but thats what I mainly am.

Magic Sperles asked on May 26th:
“My first question is – what was it like to transition to larger size penises? Second, do you ever fall in love with any of your co-stars?”
Its very uncomfortable when we first start having sex, even still. But as the scene progresses, the more comfortable we get with each other. It can sometimes be painful, especially for me, because I have a retroverted uterus.
No, I’ve never fallen in love with a co-star. Daisy Haze was my best friend before the industry, so that is a different story. I guess you could say that I fell in lust with Abigail Mac. I was also very surprised that Shyla Jennings was able to make me feel.. hmm, I don’t know how to describe it. I always cum in scenes, but she was very close (the only one in the industry) to making me have a full fledged orgasm.. like intense, intense. Johnny Sins is definitely my pick for favourite male talent.

Many other questions have been asked on twitter, Facebook, etc. But I will keep track of them for one of my next entries! I hope you all have been enjoying your holiday weekend!

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Gypsy Ways

I haven’t yet finished my other blog entry that I was working on earlier today, but I figured I”d go ahead and fill you all in on my upcoming travel plans. Many of you curiously ask me where I am on any given day, or are curious about meet and greets. So here is my current schedule for the next month! I’ll be most flexible when I’m in Atlanta, and the NE.

Atlanta, GA Today – 22 May

Miami, FL 23 May

Bahamas 24 – 26 May

Los Angeles/Malibu, CA 26 May – 1 June

Atlanta, GA 2 – 4 June

Nashville, TN 5 – 6 June

New Orleans, LA 6 – 8 June

Atlanta, GA 8 – 10 June

The NE 11 – 29 June (perhaps a few days more/less)

^ I’ll be driving to and from Atlanta, so I would gladly make stops along the way! Otherwise, I already have plans in Outer Banks, NC;  DC Suburbs, Frederick, and Western MD; Eastern Panhandle in WV; Northern VA; DC; Cumberland Valley of PA;  Jersey Shore in NJ; and NYC! If you’d be interested in meeting me, or doing something, feel free to make me an offer! Please also include what general area you are in, what you’d be interested in doing, what days/times would(n’t) work, and any other details you think I should know. It’d be easiest if you made your requests on my Facebook >> https://www.facebook.com/theshaesummers

 

I already have some trips and such arranged with some of you, and I am looking forward to them! Hopefully I’ll get to spend some time with a few more of you lovelies .. ❤

 

— By the way —

This is for nothing more than travel and different festivities. If you are interested in something sexual, please do not reply.

 

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Health is Wealth

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Hey guys! Today I’m updating you all on different healthy habits that I decided to partake in (newest to oldest) – aka things I think you should partake in, as well! 

Oil Pulling – Day 2
I obviously haven’t been oil pulling long enough to notice any real difference (yet!), but I can say that my teeth feel very smooth. My teeth have remained extremely smooth throughout the entirety of each of the two days, even after eating, etc. To get my point across, today they feel better than they do after you get them cleaned at the dentist. I’ve researched this a lot in the past week and decided to start out with organic sesame oil, swishing it only in the morning (right after I wake up) for fifteen minutes. After the fifteen minutes are up, I spit the oil in the trash (so that it does not harden in the sink pipes), rinse with salt water, and then brush as usual. I’m hoping that within the next few days I can move up to a tablespoon, but for now I’m using about 2 teaspoons. A lot of people swish with one oil in the morning, and another in the evening. I’m not going to add anything else yet because I’d like to wait and see what each oil does to me, personally – I don’t want to mess with the results of the sesame oil! Not only are there many oral health benefits from this process, but apparently there are also many overall health benefits! 

No Shampooing – Day 4
Okay, so I’ve always heard people talking about “no shampooing,” but I never had time for it. Maybe now you are wondering what I mean by not having time for it. It is a process for your hair to get used to not using traditional shampoo, and in the beginning it causes most people to have pretty greasy looking hair. For some people this can last for over a month which is why I am just getting around to doing it. I must admit it is quite nice only having to work a few days a month! For my shampoo mixture I used 1 cup water, 1tbsp of baking soda, and 1/4tsp of Dr. Bronner’s Hemp Rose Pure Castile Soap. In the future I won’t use Dr. Bronner’s in it, but I didn’t have any essential oils on hand. I’ve also been using the shampoo mix as body wash! My conditioner mixture was 1 cup water with 1tbsp of apple cider vinegar. I have also been avoiding brushing, blow drying, and straightening my hair. To dry my hair, I’ve been making a turban like wrap from a long sleeve cotton shirt. I’ve actually found my hair to feel lighter, and its even been curlier – which I love! I don’t have as many complaints as most people do.. I think this habit is definitely going to stick! 

Meditation
I’ve always had a deep interest in meditation, but at the same time, I could never focus enough to really meditate. In the past, I’ve attended group meditation sessions, and was able to succeed, but rarely ever on my own. About two weeks ago I attended a two hour meditation workshop at a yoga studio I regularly attend, and I now again have motivation. I’m not even close to where I’d like to be, but I have made a lot of improvement in such a short amount of time! Before meditating I ask myself a series of questions: who am I, what do I want, what am I grateful for, and what is my dharma (aka my purpose in life). Honestly, my original reason for wanting to get into meditation was for a gateway to astral projection. I’ve been out of body twice, but have not been able to actually leave. If any one out there is experienced in this department then you are exactly the person I’d enjoy talking to. But over time as I have learned more and more about the benefits of meditation, there are so many other reasons why I want to make it a daily practise of mine. 

Juice Cleanse
I completed my first real juice cleanse about a month ago, and I loved my results! I did it for five days, and was proud of myself for that. The only thing that I missed was chewing! I didn’t crave ANY foods, even when other people were eating in front of me – it was just the action that I craved. Throughout the five days I felt perfectly fine, except when doing hot yoga. Juice alone was not enough for me to be able to do hot yoga, and I even walked out of one of my classes about fifteen minutes into it as I was so weak. I did some research, and the next day before hot yoga I made a green juice and then put it in the blender with half of an avocado and an egg (yolk only). That kept me eating no solids, yet it allowed me to have protein and good fat for the calories that I was burning. I plan to do a juice cleanse every month from here on out, but only three days at a time. These cleanses help to cut on general cravings, and are a good “reset” for me, personally. 

Chiropractor 
As many of you know, I often drive for very long periods of time.. and by that I mean ten, fifteen, twenty hours plus at a time! This past January I finally broke down and went to see a chiropractor in Maryland for the first time. In my years, I’ve heard more bad things than good things about chiropractors, but my grandmother just went on and on about this one in particular. So, I gave him a shot, and ended up very surprised – happily surprised. It was not invasive, and it only took about a minute. The chiropractor I went to was able to find my two main spots that I have pain almost instantly! That definitely made me more open and trusting. Have you ever had a bad experience with a chiropractor? I’m curious what style it was. Here’s the site where you can find one like mine http://www.activator.com/doctor ~

Yoga
Come on.. this is an obvious one. Yoga offers so many health benefits that I can’t even wrap my head around them! I haven’t really practised yoga since I got my wisdom teeth pulled, and I really notice the difference in my body. I wake up feeling achy every morning, and I realise that I really can never again go this long without doing yoga! I usually do hot yoga when I go to a studio because at home I can do other types more easily. If you lack the time or motivation, you should try even doing five minutes of yoga when you wake up, and five minutes before you go to bed – every little bit counts! 

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I would love for any of you that have tried any of these things to share your experience with me! I would also love to hear any other things that you think I should try out!  I hope you all enjoy your night, and the rest of your week! 

xoxox

 

 

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Everything Happens for a Reason

As I lay here Inhaling amber and sandalwood, feeling goosebumps form from the breeze off the lake, soaking up rays of sunshine, and drowning in melodies of CoCoRosie… my heart rate is slow and steady; my body is relaxed. I love stretching from head to toe, letting my body unravel with every breath. Each unravelling further inspires my contentment. 

Yesterday I unfortunately found out that the cabin I spoke of previously is rented. There was a couple that hadn’t made up their mind (whether or not they wanted the cabin) when I stumbled upon it, and sadly, they signed a lease. In waiting for a response, I told my mother (being half way serious) that I was going to move to LA if I didn’t get this place. To me, it was meant to be, or it simply wasn’t. Perhaps I belong in LA for the time being because I think that was a sign. Last night I also found out that there is a place for me out there already, which is another sign to me. I’m not in love with LA, but its good to experience change. My idealistic lifestyle of homesteading isn’t going anywhere, except into my future. If I’m being realistic, it only makes sense for me to live in South Florida or (especially) LA while I’m in the Industry for my main income. Some of you may wonder why I don’t just look for another place to live out the plans I made. Well, I did. I looked over roughy fifteen states, and no luck. There are four other places that I like in four different states (GA, NC, SC, CO), but none of them compare. This is not what I envisioned, or what I wanted, but I have faith in the Universe and trust wherever it chooses to take me. Besides, my happiness is within me. Its not reliant on anything else, so what do I have to lose?

Updates:

* Wisdom Teeth *
The swelling from my wisdom teeth has (FINALLY!) completely diminished. If you touch my cheeks you can still feel the swelling, but its no longer visible. When I got them removed, I actually woke up during the procedure, and it took twice as long as it was supposed to! The dentist had to cut each of the four teeth four different times to be able to extract them. Many of you asked if I took anything for the pain, and eventually, yes, I did. The first few days I was able to tough it out. A few days passed, and there were things that I had to accomplish that required me getting off of the couch. That, and I wasn’t able to sleep at night because the pain was so bad. So, yes.. Vicodin came into the picture. 

* Twerk Twerk Twerk All Day Long *
I actually don’t have enough ass to twerk, so we’ll just stick to work! Hahaha. As most of you know, I happily resigned with Reality Kings for another six months. I currently have 11 scenes out, which you can find on RealityKings.com (8 scenes), HdLove.com (2 scenes), and GfRevenge.com (1 scene). I won’t be shooting again until the last week of April! 

* One on One Time *
I have recently started offering chances to spend one on one time with me. The price tag of said time covers my travel expenses, and whatever we end up doing. Its not something that I will be making money from, but its even better. It allows me a chance to experience things with new people, and vice versa. I am fascinated by many of you, and would appreciate the pleasure of getting to know you. I will probably announce one of these once a month on here and/or on my twitter. Feel free to suggest and request things as well. All ideas are most definitely welcome! 

Hope you have a weekend full of merriment and love, Darlings.. ! 

xx

 

 

 

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This Ever Changing Life

I just got back from a little hike in the woods. My feet, and the bottom of my pants are still wet from walking through the creek, hopping from rock to rock. My hair is curly from the wind drying it, and my skin warm from the kisses of the sun. Sweet sounds from The Honey Trees are currently filling my ears. I feel peaceful. I am at peace. I am peace. 

Life is every changing (especially mine recently). No one is pulling me in any direction for once in my life. I took control, opened the cage door, grabbed a pair of scissors and cut all of the loose strings, knotted the ends.. and then I flew away. I found myself.. and I found myself nestled in the heavenly mountains of Georgia. In these mountains I found a picturesque cabin that would be the perfect place to free my soul. The perfect place for me to spend my days gardening, cooking, hiking, writing, meditating, horseback riding, kayaking, reading, crafting, practising yoga, and doing whatever else my little heart desires. I should be finding out today if this place is mine. If not, it will be upsetting, but everything happens for a reason. 

I sent a letter to a dear friend of mine this morning who is in need of some Love, and in it I quoted a line that I’ve been carrying with me for the past few weeks – “Don’t lose a diamond while chasing glitter.” The way I’ve been looking at it is I am the diamond, and everyone and everything around me is the glitter. I can’t keep chasing people, and places, and things. I need to be here, in this moment, loving who I am, what I have, and what I have to offer. Not only that, but I need to spread it like a pleasurable infection. I’m so tired of distractions, and facades. They drain so much energy, and I’m so tired of being tired. 

Happiness is a choice. I hope today you choose to be happy. I hope you choose to be happy every time it is ‘today’. You deserve it. 

 

 

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